Man, this sure is complicated.

This minimalist thing sure is complicated.

I took a wee break from blogging so I could concentrate on my career-after-my-career. After all, something has to be done to support me in the manner to which I am accustomed (bad minimalist joke). I have been re-energizing my freelance writing work and throwing some samples out to the folks that can actually allow me to make money with it. That’s right, I stopped writing so I could write!

My life up until recently was traditionally upper middle-class and consumer driven, now it is one of pairing down and eliminating the unnecessary. It has occurred to me that what I am doing has actually made my life more complex.

I have a typically stressful management position with a retail sales and service company. It eats up forty to fifty hours a week give or take a few minutes. I have a son halfway through college, and the normal father responsibilities that come with it. Add in the average amount of friends, exercise, and just plain lazy moments and the week is pretty full. Now throw in the time it takes to gather up my mountains of crap for disposal and donation. Since I have promised myself that going to work will be a thing of the past within two years, my next source of income has started eating up a considerable amount of clock-ticks. I have managed to make my life more convoluted by minimizing it. Is this the storm before the calm?

However somehow I am thriving. I feel productive and optimistic about achieving my goals. If there is ever a piece of advice you can take from me this might be it. Manage your energy.

Everybody spouts off quotes centered around time management. If you think about it, time is finite. Everyone has 24 hours in a day. That’s it. No more and no less. It is much easier to manage something when you know exactly how much of it you have. Your energy is not finite or limited. Your energy can be drained by bad diet, lack of exercise, or poor sleep habits. Negative people, worry and stress, and your own woeful attitude are energy vampires. They bite your neck and suck the energy out of you then leave you to be the walking dead. But you can bite back.  Listen to some music or a motivational speaker in the car while commuting. Take a two-minute break and concentrate on your goals or where you want to be. Try calling up a friend and just saying ”hi.” Spend a few moments in total silence and clear your thoughts. I personally am a huge fan of the five-minute power nap. The bottom line is do whatever you need to do to focus and recharge your internal batteries.

I actually have it easy. I have a fairly clear picture of who I am going to be, what I am going to do,   and where I am going to do it. That provide me bundles of energy and inspiration. Embracing a more minimal lifestyle was a key to finding that inspiration. Once all the pretenses of my consumer-centered rat-race pursuits were brushed away  that picture stood before me in stunning technicolor.

And guess what? That makes energy management much easier.

About Brian McCarrel

I am the late, great middle class working stiff that is the framework of society. Notice I didn't say foundation, that would indicate my ego was over sized. I (like many of you) am a victim of my own desire to be what those around us think we should be. But more on that later ... And excuse the grammar, I'm NOT a professional.
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4 Responses to Man, this sure is complicated.

  1. lian says:

    Time management – ugh! My job sucks away all my time and energy, and all I have to show for it is a pile of useless, worthless stuff I can’t even sell on Craigslist (actually I did sell some of it). I want much less time in the cubicle and way more time outside – I just need to figure out how I’m going to fund it. Minimizing my stuff and getting free of debt is rewarding and enlightening, but it’s also meant to help me get control of my own destiny. Good for you that you have found your way to do it! Knowing what you are doing and why makes the lack of time well worth it – and it’s only for a couple of years. I enjoy your blog, and think you will do well in your writing career.

    • Lian.
      Jobs can be the BIGGEST energy vampires of all. Especially if you are doing something you dislike. Where there is a will, there is usually a lawyer. But there is a way as well. Don’t let the bastards get you down. Find your passion and pursue it.

  2. Maria says:

    Energy management is huge, as is priority management. I spend way too much time and energy doing things that aren’t getting me closer to my goals, and its mainly because my priorities are jumbled up. Plus I’m not as good as compartmentalizing as many people are.

    You’re going to get there Brian and faster than you think too! I *know* this :)

    Maria

    PS Commenting is still incredibly hard… grrrr WordPress!

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